first time... plan b ?

Question

So I’m having sex for the first time with my boyfriend and I am not on birth control and have no way of obtaining it before we do it. I insist on him using a condom but he says he doesn’t like the way they feel and says I’ll be fine with a plan b because he doesn’t want to pull out. I’d just like to know thoughts on plan b and its accuracy because he claims that it works well (because it isn’t his first time).

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Hun, overall this does not sound like a guy you should be involved in. Plan b is for emergencies. Do not have sex with him or make sure he wears a condom... he honestly sounds like the type to take it off in the middle of sex though. Please be careful with this guy... he clearly doesn't care about the possibilities.

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Dude what the fuck???? Plan b is not birth control it’s is a plan B for when birth control fails for a ton of obvious reasons also it’s not a 100 percent and for me personallly plan be has felt like taking poison and then given me an awful period and more to follow that took forever to get back to normal plan be is not a healthy thing to take Willy billy because some little boy doesn’t like the feel of condoms btw they have thin condoms for sensitive guys and there are a lot more risks to unprotected sex than pregnancy like hpv which they can’t test men for a huge percentage of the population has.......

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so..is he gonna want you to get a plan b everytime? Don't take it just for him but got emergencies. If he is selfish and doesn't want to pull out or use a condom, I'd tell him he can get sex elsewhere because pregnancy isn't the only risk here.(Also its still not 100% even when taken in that window of time)

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Not his first time & he doesn't use condoms?? Is he clean?? Condoms don't just protect against pregnancy but STIs as well. Plan B on the other hand cannot do both. It is also, as the others have said, an emergency contraceptive. The more you take it, the less effective it becomes. It is your body & you have a right to protect it. Please do not have sex without a condom if you don't want to run the risk of pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections.

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Listen you will have sex with whoever you want, my boyfriend doesn’t like condoms yet we still wear them and just because yours doesn’t like them doesn’t mean he’s a bad partner. Everyone is different and as long as he’s not pressuring you, y’all just the way you are. 
I’ve also taken Plan B after my boyfriend came in me. At the time I was over the weight limit it says (165 I believe) but it worked perfectly fine for me, just take it as soon as possible after sex. I bled a bit a week after for a few days, no big deal and my next period was like 2 weeks later than normal. It worked well for me and I will use it again. 
Hope this helps, rather than try and lecture you like others. 🙄

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Plan B is expensive and isn’t supposed to be used as birth control. I’ve heard a lot of girls throw it up so it doesn’t even work. (Not sure how accurate that is, so don’t quote me on that) 
This guy shouldn’t tell you that he doesn’t want to wear a condom or pull out because he “doesn’t feel like it.” That’s unfair. If he really doesn’t like condoms, just get thin ones or something that don’t feel like much. He can suck it up. 
Please be careful with this dude. He does not sound like he respects you.

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Honestly seems like this guy is not mature enough to be having sex...

first time... plan b ?

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