After coming across so many complaints of others lack or failing relationships, both in regards to relationship and sex, I'm finding it helpful for me to look out for mine and make sure ours is intact in every aspect. Last night we bad an amazing, hot love making and, prior to that, we talked a lot about different stuff like our 4 year marriage, our almost 2 kids and life... It's encouraging to find ways to make ours better from stories of other's relationship as well try and give insight to what is missing in theirs. Life is not competition, but improving self and making better of what we DO have.