my boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years, and recently we have been contemplating amping up our sex life and having a threesome. I identify as mostly straight with bisexual tendencies and attractions, so I’m completely down for having sex with another woman. However, I’ve heard of many seemingly secure relationships having issues and ultimately ending because the couple introduced a third party into the bedroom too soon. We’re very in love, and I think our relationship is pretty strong, but I’m nervous that I’ll end up getting jealous watching my boyfriend have sex with another woman... the fantasy appeals to me in theory, but I’m scared it’ll end up being torture in reality. Any tips from other ladies who have had successful and/or unsuccessful threesomes?