please let me know if any of you moms told your doctor this

yesterday my high risk doctor informed me my little girl has spina bifida.. as it was a shock to me I broke down, multiple times. he said if i didnt terminate the pregnancy I'm looking at 10 to 15 years with my little girl. I dont want to terminate the pregnancy. I have been infertile for years. I already love this little girl so much. if any of you mommies been through this before can you please give me words of advice?