Do you think body count matters?

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If you do what is the highest you would like your partner to have? What is you body count? And why or why not is it important to you?

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All that matters is that I’m the only one now.  Anything before me isn’t my business.

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I only know my partners bc he only had one girlfriend before me. I’ve never known any of my ex’s numbers and never cared to ask... At the same time there are guys here that are known for sleeping around and I’d never start anything with them. Just personal preference 🤗

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I’m no slut shamer 😂 life goes on!

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Ugh this is a hard question for me to answer. It doesnt matter but it also kinda matters. I feel like if i knew my husband slept with lots of women Id be like...boy bye!!! And i feel like he must think of sex too casually. I dont think sex is a casual thing. That said if other people are chill with that with each other - then you do you. But to me- its not......so i dont think i could be with someone who treats it as such. I feel like in any relationship that involves intimacy - both parties should have the same view on sex or someones bound to get hurt. 
On another note...if i was confident in myself and my husband had any kind of past it wouldnt be a problem whatsoever as long as he treated me right. I could be as confident and secure as all get out but if he acted like a butt because of his past then goodbye. But if he treated me as his one and only regardless of his past then we good. 
On another note...my husband IS my first. Ive fooled around with other guys in my past but never lost my virginity. My husband has slept with one other person besides me and honestly thats caused a lot of hurt and jealousy on my mind and i know its allllll me. And hes been amazing as i work through my own crap. Ive come a long way with it but im still hurt sometimes. I worry im not as good since she was experienced. I worry that since she was the only other one and he lost his virginity to her that she always has this place in his heart that ill never have. 
I feel like if he had slept with more than just us two - i kinda feel like that would be better than just this other chick. Its so ironic because i do think treating sex too casual is wrong and yet because my husband DOESNT treat sex casually- i know that he truly had to care for this other person in order to have sex with her. Just as he has to truly care for me to have sex with me. But i dont like that she truly meant something to him..its so contradictory and i know in the end - every intimate relationship with a different human is different. That i dont have to compare to her. There doesnt need to be a comparison at all. That he loves me and i love him unconditionally and nothing in our pasts matter but i am just still insecure. 
Does that answer the question?

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For me, it does matter because it tells me about my partner's attitude toward sex 🤷🏼

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My bf was the only guy I’ve ever been with, before him, I was with one girl. my bf had sex with one girl (only once) before me.  For me, it does matter, something he and I both value is that he was my first and only guy. Honestly, he loves the fact that he broke my hymen lol

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As long as you’re safe I don’t see why it matters

Do you think body count matters?

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