My Husband is so insensitive

So recently my inlaws applied to get a house and lost the house due to not being able to get the loan intime so there homeless and moving in with us. Which I’m totally fine with I even volunteered to let them stay but for a short term thing only until they get another house. So I was feeling overwhelmed because it’s my husbands birthday tomorrow and we are moving his parents house to a storage unit and they are moving in with us tomorrow. But my husband told me that he wants to invite his nieces and Nephews over for the weekend. So now Iv got his parents moving in with us for who knows how long and 4 kids I have to feed tomorrow. So I was feeling stressed because I will have to clean the entire house tomorrow, cook for 8 people and I have a house of 6 dogs right now. Needless to say I’m a little overwhelmed. Well my husband asked me what was wrong because I was quite and not saying much and I told him I didn’t want to talk about it and he kept pressuring me to talk so finally I told him calmly how I was feeling. That mother fucker starts yelling at me saying I have no right to feel overwhelmed!!! Seriously!!! I have no right to feel overwhelmed??? I’m the one cooking, I’m the one cleaning, I’m the one paying for all the damn food, I’m the one having to keep the kids entertained and your telling me I have no right to feel overwhelmed! I was about to punch the shit out of him I was so mad! My husband has not reguard for my feelings and I’m sick of it.