What should a husband/wife have a say in, when it comes to your appearance?

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For example, If your SO demanded that you not change any of the following, would that upset you or do they have a say?

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What should they have a final say in? Nothing. Absolutely nothing. But if I’m going to make a major change, I’m going to at least tell my SO before hand. That’s just me though

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Demanding is one thing. But respecting what I know my husband likes and dislikes is another and if he had a preference, I personally wouldn’t just overlook that. Call me old fashioned but husbands opinion matters to me 🤷🏼‍♀️ 
P.s. that’s not to say that if he demanded I changed something after the fact, that I would because I most definitely would not.

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Kind of. He said he wanted to shave off his beard and cut his long hair and I was like hell no dont do i love it!! And so he kept it. Its so hot. I want him to continue to stay physically attracted to me as well so I wouldnt go cut my hair super short cause I know he loves it long. If he was controlling and an asshole, different story.

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It’s my body and I’ll do whatever I want with it. Just as he’s allowed to do whatever he wants to his own body. It isn’t mine to own and have any decisions over.

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He can have an opinion, does that mean I'm going to listen? Maybe, maybe not.

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The wording of this poll is off and the choices are off. I would choose “everything” if that were an option. My husband can have a say in any of these things, I do care what he thinks, his opinion matters. If a SO is DEMANDING how any of these should be that’s a totally different story.

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All of that and more

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Of course you'd want their opinion, but you always have the final say if it's your body

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My husband couldn't and likely wouldn't control anything like this if I wanted to do them, but I will always run things by him to see what he thinks, he's my husband and I care about his opinion! But I still have the final say. 🤷

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I ask for an opinion and decide based off that and if I really want it. My SO has never commented on anything like that. I’ve asked him about facial piercings because I think they’re cute but he thinks they are trashy. His opinion. I know if I really wanted he’d let me.

What should a husband/wife have a say in, when it comes to your appearance?

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