how do you all look so beautiful all the time?

okay seriously ladies! you all look so put together & beautiful all the time! What are your routines? how do you manage it? I'm exhausted & in pain all the time so I seem to never have the ambition to do things for myself & feel gross & like I'm not myself. I manage to shower & take care of basic hygiene, but it's been so long since I've bothered to shave, style my hair, put on makeup, ECT... I've always dealt with acne, I have alot of facial hair from having pcos, and I work in a hot kitchen all day. what helps you the most?