Ughhh! Why is this decision sooo stressful!!??

Help me out... when did you all first let your new baby stay off from home with family? I am being pressured, like a lot of pressure and I’m just not ready yet. my sweet baby boy is 3 months today. I am 40 it took a long time and a lot of hard work and losses to have this little miracle. I enjoy my time with him and just don’t feel ready to be away from him. Also, my husband doesn’t get to spend a lot of time with him during the week so the weekend is important for him. People act like it isn’t normal to not be ready to let my 3 month old stay away from me yet. It’s really stressing me out. Advice please...