Am I wrong and too judgemental? 😨

Look so my boyfriend is 21 and not in uni because he dropped out. He constantly changes his job like get into one job for 4-6 months and quit.

He's constantly out to the bar to drink and all and gets drunk. He can do this 3-4 nights a week! I voiced my concerns and told him it's not necessary to do so.

He doesn't have a job at the moment and would run out of money. I am not a party person so I don't go with him and I don't like it either. His parents don't send him money like they do to his brother (who's in uni) because he's not in uni.

He bought $300 boots too! I was in shock.

He would get sad if I told him not to go out as much and that I'm holding him back from something he likes and that he has depression and need to be with people to be happy. He says he needs my support.

This has made me think of breaking up with him because of his drinking habit and bad money management.