Disappointed in my family...

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All of the males in the family are saying they’re not going to the CO-ED baby shower because “it’s a girl thing.”

I understand it’s their opinion...but it really hurts that celebrating this baby is seen as too feminine and, therefore, undesirable to them.

Also I’m 27 weeks pregnant and my husband is gone on a month long AT so my fuse is so short. Thanks for letting me vent. Any advice on how to not let this get to me would be appreciated