How do you have so much sex???

I feel so overwhelmed. My husband and my biggest problem is our sex life. There is none!! We had our LO 5 years ago. And since then I have felt different. But even a little bit before that I had a low libido! I don’t understand. We’ve been together for 10 years. We try kinky things, inviting someone into the room, anything. But I just don’t NEED sex like my husband needs sex.. I could quite literally go with weeks with out it. Now don’t get me wrong I enjoy it when it happens.. but I mean.. I don’t need it.

He tells me constantly how it’s a huge problem with our marriage. And he’s not wrong. It is.. it causes so many fights. And then when we finally do have sex. I’m boring. I do boring things. And I’m just all around. Boring.

I don’t know how to be exciting. Or sexy. Or kinky. I’ve tried and I feel stupid!! It doesn’t feel like me!

I wasn’t always like this. I used to be a sex freak. I don’t know what happened to me.. but whatever it is.. it’s on brink of destroying my marriage.. and I need help ASAP..