Not so good vibes.

Ok so I’m 21, and I sadly still live with my parents lol... anyways I just recent bought my first toy a few months ago, which is a mini wand! I was so excited to try it out, and when I finally did I realized that it just wasn’t cutting it for me. I’ve tried it in my room, in the shower (it’s waterproof) and I just can’t seem to get off. There are multiple settings and speeds but I just can’t reach an orgasm with it. :/

I was wondering if y’all had any tips to make toys more enjoyable. I’m not sure if It’s because I’m nervous someone will hear it or what, but I really want to be able to enjoy myself with it!