I don’t know if I still love my husband

I have been asking God for the past year to help me see the right decision. I have tried everything. I am just so tired and have felt like there was nothing left a long time ago. When we got married I didn’t want to but it seemed too late. I am just so unhappy. I don’t know if the remaining thing preventing me from leaving is codependency or remnants of love, but I cannot stand looking at him and none of his problems have improved for years. Counseling doesn’t seem to help. I’m looking for a pastor to talk to. What should I do? There was infidelity so I believe I can leave.