I want a surprise but also don't, who else?

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I'm kinda having baby fever, but then again I don't when I think about how things would be after those 9 months. Deciding when to ttc again is so difficult, so I kinda want to just have a surprise pg so I won't have to make that decision, but then again I don't LOL. Anyone else being this conflicted with themselves?!

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Yes!! I know I want at least one more child, and I’m back and forth constantly over whether I want to just have them or wait until our baby is older. I have awful baby fever right up until I remember how hard those first two months were, haha. But at the same time, I’d be so excited if we ended up pregnant as a surprise!

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Were just not NOT trying lol. So whatever happens happens. Way less stressful than before. Just having fun 😉 no test strips and temps. I was full blown cray cray TTC lady before lol. Now I’m like whatever 🤷🏻‍♀️ not trying but not trying to prevent it either. Then again now my period is all jacked up. Currently on CD 48 and 13 days late. But negative tests. My cycle is going back to irregular it seems. 😞

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I was in the same boat as you, my daughter was 9 months and we decided to not NOT try.... just “see what happens” since it took several years to conceive her. I got pregnant the first month 😂 so now I have a 10.5 month old and I’m 7 weeks pregnant 🤷🏼‍♀️

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My sept baby is my 4th. if i had a surprise, my hubs wouldnhave a surprise visit with a pair of garden shears in the groin area.

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No way ! Baby still doesn’t sleepnthru the night im exhausted I can’t even eimahijenbak imagine another one

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I’ve recently started to get baby fever which I never thought I would?! I don’t mind a newborn but being a first time mum I’ve only realised how much little time I actually get to myself & the thought of having 2 little ones I think they’d drive me crazy! Although I’d like to wait till my daughter is a little older before we have another, a part of me says just get it out the way and have 2 close together because so many people say it’s easier in the long run. I’ve got the copper coil in now which is useful for 10+ years so no baby for me until I decide 100% & then have it taken out.

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Yes!!! I have many fever in the worst way but I know financially it would be irresponsible. We are waiting another couple of years.

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Already ttc because by the time we have baby. Our 1st will be almost 2 by that point. :) hard to decide. 
But that’s our choice :)

I want a surprise but also don't, who else?

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