so i identify with myself as bi but havent came out of the closet to anyone else. but, im a virgin and havent even kissed a boy OR girl and im 15. (its not like i havent wanted to, but im not very attractive so nobody has ever shown interest in me) can i still identify as bi even though i havent really done anything sexual at all. since i was little i always had crushes on boys and girls and now that im a little older i fanasize about both pretty evenly. but, i worry that im just overthinking things and i cant be bi unless ive actually done something with both a boy and a girl. can someone tell me if im overthinking this of if i cant identify until ive been with both?