Mom body 😞

Does anyone else have the problem of not being able to get comfortable jeans? I've had 3 babies now and when standing up my jeans are way too big on my waist. The second I sit down they are like 6 sizes to small and cutting into my tummy. After my first who I gained 70lbs with my tummy was mushy but in the lower abdomen and it was a really small confined area if that makes sense once I got back to 120. Ever since my second who I gained 40 lbs with my mushy nasty tummy is all over now. Like it goes above my belly button up my waist and even to the sides where I sit I have lose skin its so gross. After my 3rd baby fortunately no more damage had been done but at this point it looks like I've had 6 children. The amount of fat in just my tummy area is horrible. When standing up it's flatter but super mushy. Sitting down is just miserable. Anyone else suffer through this ? And what did you do to make your tummy better other than a tummy tuck? I've been eating super healthy and trying to be more active. Ps I was to lazy to put a bra back on and my boobs are huge and sag so i needed to hold them out of the way 😭