real talk - bf doesn’t do condoms

so my new s/o does not like condoms and in the moment i anticipated so much i didn’t care so i let him go raw and then he pulled out... i’m not in the pill nor any other birth control method

i took plan B, because precum

and apparently he is tested and presumably doesn’t cheat

we’re an open family and i told my parents what happened, including my best friend, they all said this guy is not worth your time if he doest respect you enough to put on a condom. (and he might have done he same with other girls and then gotten some bad disease)

for some weird ass reason, maybe it’s love i don’t know tbh at this point, i understand why he did it - maybe it does feel better to do it raw for him.

but point of the story is, i want second opinions on whether he is trash or not?

his past relationships have been all with the girl being on the pill so that’s for the pregnancy scares, but to be honest with y’all, in my view that can be solved (i mean in my believes abortion is fine) but if i contract some shitty as STI is the worse you can have.