Coming to an end.

So my husband wrote a letter saying how other women would treat him better than I do and he even said he need a woman. I don’t know what to do any more I pay most of the bills, I clean up, I cook, I try to spend time with him and I put up with his brother living with us. I was by his side last year when he was bed bound from a car accident. I slept at the hospital every night and when he went to the nursing home for rehabilitation I even stayed the night. I pushed him around town in his wheel chair until he learned how to walk again. I give him money and take him out to eat and to the movies. I even offer to pay for a vacation and a new vehicle. How much do I have to do so I don’t feel unappreciated? He say it’s my attitude yet I haven’t had one in a little almost a week. We are not intimate or affectionate at all yet he want want me to be patient for him to do the things that married people do. Like I don’t understand how hard is it to hug or kiss your wife or say how was your day?. So, now he staying at his mom house until he decide what he want to do or I decide. 💔💔💔💔💔😭😢