Am I trying too hard ?

Tia • I`m in love with cities I`ve never been and people I`ve never met

I got my IUD Skyla taken out on the 9th and my fiancé and I have been trying ever since to have another child. I want a girl so bad and I ha e researching positions and what to do. And yesterday I was ovulating and we obviously had sex but I took a test and it was negative and I guess I’m just trying too hard and getting too ahead of myself. How long did it take you ladies to get pregnant after an IUD?