Stupid argument with husband

So dumb and I’m not sure if anyone can relate... we hardly ever argue but when we do, it’s over dumb stuff!

every night, my husband tells me he’s going to get in the shower.. it’s usually right after our 2 year old daughter is put to bed. He takes like an hour shower so it’s a little annoying because by the time he gets out I’m ready for bed or he’s going to play video games. Tonight, he says he’s going to get in the shower at 7:00 pm. An hour before our daughter goes to bed. I subconsciously know he will be in the shower for a long time and probably when he gets out she will be ready for bed which annoys me a little because it’s ‘family time’ and I don’t know why he can’t just wait... so I say, “why do you want a shower right now?” He just cocked an attitude and said “fine, never mind.” And I then I said, “no, why?” And he ignored me and I asked again. He then raised his voice and said “WHY DOES IT MATTER IF I GET IN RIGHT NOW?” So then I said, (with an attitude) “fine, just get in then.” And he kept refusing and refusing. Then I said that my daughter and I were going to go out for a little while if he kept refusing to get in the shower because I didn’t want to be around him anymore since he raised his voice at me. He then told me, “she’s a child, why are you going to use her against me?” And I was like, what? I’m not harming our child? I just don’t want her to be around this, ( I was planning to take her to a park down the street) and he kept saying “well I’m not they type of person to use my child. over you” and I was like “WHY DONT YOU JUSY GET IN THE EFFIN SHOWERRR???” And I said you’re right, you did nothing wrong with her so I will just leave... I went and sat on the porch 😂

Can ANYONE RELATE? (I am on my period so I’m a little more temperamental but it just annoyed he shit out of me, plus him getting loud with me. OVER A SHOWER...😫 I’m wondering if I need to apologize? Idk.