Question

I am a bratty submissive and on top of that I am a little. But I am very complex. I'm a switch as well. I'm a bisexual woman and when I'm with a man I have to be submissive, but when I am with a woman, I need to be in control.

Now that you know a little about me, I'm really stuck on this. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and we always have fun sex. Whether it be loving or kinda rough.

Now I've tried explaining BDSM to him but he just doesn't seem to get it. I have an issue with getting off when I'm not being dominated. Plus, I crave being played with. Tied up, the whole 9 yards. But he doesn't seem to understand.

Advice? What would be the best way to bring it out of him? How could he Learn?