AF due today

AF is due today no sign of her showing. My CP is high basically to high to touch I really gotta get deep in there to even graze it, and it’s squishy soft and closed. (Yes I know cp isn’t a good indicator of pregnancy so please don’t comment if you’re just gonna say that lol) just wondering about other ladies before a BFP what your cp was like? (I plan on testing Sunday when 3 days late, I tested 12dpo and BFN) I’ve had mild twinges in my right side by my ovary since 10dpo, hot flashes and dizziness as well!