Divorce

This isn’t something I want to be writing about. But after fighting to keep our marriage civil for two years. I’ve given up. I’ve always been a very sensitive person and I know that factors in a lot here but I’ve gone through so much since I said “I do” and I feel I’m finally coming to peace with myself and I feel I’m ready to bring it up and be serious about it.

We’ve had fights were he leaves but comes back the next morning and such but it’s much different and more complicated for him to do that now.

I guess I’m really just asking

What are the steps to getting divorced and how do you cope with divorce when you don’t want it but there’s nothing holding you together?

We have a one year old and my husbands legal status is conditional I applied for his visa when we got married and it was just granted this past may, he has no family here and by conditional I mean it’s a spousal visa, if we separate he has to return to his home country.