Mmmm help 😫

So my boyfriend and I are in a good healthy happy relationship...but I kinda like to be dominated, not a lot I just like to be told what to do and maybe some spanking, choking, being pinned down and shit like that 😂

The thing is he’s not really like that, he’s supper chill and I don’t know how to bring it up that I want him to be a little more...I don’t know if aggressive is the word but that’s all that’s coming to mind.

So if you have any suggestions please say, it would help a lot.