Find out daughter is having sex?

Question

What would you mothers do if you found out your daughter is having sex? What if they were honest about it and their views? Would you stay mad for a long time?

Answer

Staying mad only hurts YOU and pushes your daughter away. 
There are a lot of factors that go into play here. Age, partners, views, is she using protection... I believe sex is for marriage between a man & woman. Our culture today, teaches our children the exact opposite. 
It all comes down to this tho- 
you have raised her. You have taught her your beliefs and what you know to be right. Now, it’s time for HER to make her OWN choices. Some will be bad ones, and she will pay consequences for some. Your job is to be her mother. Love her, understand her, be there for her, and pray for her.

DISCLAIMER: If she is young, you need to have a serious talk. First, the issues with having sex early and before marriage. But most importantly, how to prevent pregnancy. Because if she is going to do it (and you can’t be with her 24/7), she should be taught to avoid lifelong consequences (i.e. pregnancy, stds, etc).

Answer

I would sit her down and talk calmly and rationally to her about her choices. Explain that this behaviour is not only against God’s law but is also dangerous both physically and emotionally. Ask her what precautions she is taking against STDs and pregnancy. Ask her what she plans on telling her future husband about her sexual past. Talk about why the Bible says premarital sex is a sin. Chances are she hasn’t thought her risky behaviour through. Maybe see about getting her connected with an older woman in the church (mid 20s) who she respects who can mentor her through this confusing transition to adulthood

Answer

I would take them to the doctor. Discuss birth control options. Buy condoms. Then explain my expectations. I’d pray they’d reconsider. I don’t think minors are prepared for sex. I am also unprepared to be a grandma, don’t want a kid with an STD and I’d die a slow death bc I don’t support certain “choices”.

Find out daughter is having sex?

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