New to Sex

23 and just started being sexually active. There was a bit of pain at first that went away fast, but I didn't feel any real pleasure. It didn't feel bad just...strange? It was nice feeling close to him but it was super difficult to concentrate on how it felt physcially. Even with other things like oral I don't feel a lot, though I'm able to get off on my own just fine.

How long did it take before you could relax and start feeling pleasure?