My boyfriend won’t meet my family and I’m done UPDATE

So my boyfriend of almost 2 years has never met my parents. Me kept it private but I finally told my family in July. Since then I have asked him twice to meet them and first he was scared, then he wasn’t in town. The past week we were in the same town and he didn’t come but once to see me, we havnt seen eachother since May.

My family is bowling Sunday and he promised to come, and now it’s “well if work doesn’t call me in”

He works HR at our college.

I told him we aren’t going until 6, as we had plans come up and are going later. He lives 40 mins away and is almost convinced he’s gonna be called in or something. I’m so tempted to break up with him, as it’s always “work this” and “work that” he works until 4:30, and has class 3 times a week. I might sound needy but the fact he won’t even come over to see me at like 10 or take a day off or tell work when they call him in say “sorry can’t I have plans” it ticks me off because he tells me to do that at my work all the time.

If he can’t see me tomorrow that’s my last straw, I bend over backwards for him all the time, doing things that physically make me barf, but he can’t see me. That’s it, I’m done

UPDAYE:

I dumped him, he said he couldn’t do it so I dumped him