YOUR CHILD IS NOT A PAWN!

Ladies, this drives me crazy. If you have an ex-husband/ex-boyfriend/baby daddy you aren’t with who WANTS to be involved in their child’s life please LET THEM!

I’ve seen SO many women use their kids as pawns and not let the fathers have as much time with the child or just doesn’t want their child to be around dad because of XYZ..

It doesn’t matter what he did to you, if he is willing to support the child financially, emotionally and physically then LET HIM. Stop taking out your anger towards him on their father/child relationship.

My father left me at a young age and I would’ve loved to have an opportunity to have a dad. If you have someone willing to step up to the plate and be a father, please put your personal feelings aside and give him a chance. It’s rare these days. Okay, end rant.

*all of this is void if he is abusive or has any serious reasons why he shouldn’t be around kids