Am I wrong to feel like I'm being punished?

My boyfriend and I do anal from time to time. Recently we were drunk and he kept wanting to do it and i kept saying no, he ended up going to bed angry that I didn't seem into it. Next day he didn't remember anything. Now a couple days later he's texted me saying I remember what happened and I'm never touching your booty again. Do I have a right to be offended? I feel like it's my body and I'm allowed to say no when its hurting and not have him be dramatic about it ?