RANT!!

27 weeks pregnant signed off work due to pregnancy related illnesses and I know have pelvic girdle pain which might I add excruciating! Any of you ladies had this if so what helped you? So I'm trying to get my house in order but I feel like I'm having to deep clean the house every other day with little or no help! Talked to the OH several times asking for more help he has basically admitted that he just does ' a bit more' each time I ask him and then we end up having the same convo again due to it not being an equal share! I'm struggling so much by the time I'm done I'm so tired and in so much pain that I can't cope! We also currently have his mother living with us until she decides where she wants to buy paying us very little towards living here and hasn't once even vacuumed but will sit and watch me struggle and be in pain! To top it off she has gone on holiday and I have gone in to her fruit and veg area of the fridge and well I have found some food that has gone beyond mouldy!!! I am so frustrated and angry trying to have an adult conversation over the topic never helps because I am constantly being told he does help I mean really the proof of your help is not showing in how the house looks! I'm also getting jabs from his mother saying things like oh you going to tidy before the OH gets home or you going to do the laundry! I mean last I checked women have come along way and are no longer the stay at home cooking,cleaning and looking after the kids type unless that is what us women choose to do! It's our choice right...?