Idk really

So I had legit sex the other day (the first time didnt last a while bc it hurt so much) but then I couldn’t orgasm. Well I haven’t orgasmed even when we had foreplay and all that stuff. He ate me out a lot and I was turned on but I didnt orgasm and I havent experienced orgasm. I tried playing w myself too but I couldn’t either. Is this normal or smth lol sorry this is awkward for me