So my SIL is the WORST kind of female around. Emotionally abusive, mean spirited, liar, cheater, backstabber. She’s hurt my hub and I so many times.

Well she tried to come back into my and my sons lives last month (which I tried to work with because she’s his aunt), then ran off and blocked us out again after she got another new boyfriend. I texted her and told her to stay away from my family until she’s gonna stay around for good because people aren’t going to pop in and out on my baby when it’s convenient for them. He’s worth more than that. This family of mine includes my husband (her brother) and she knows that’s what I meant. He HATES her guts and has many many times said he doesn’t want her around anyway so I felt comfortable telling her that.

Well within hours guess who is trying to get ahold of my husband, trying to get all close again, wanting around our kid? After refusing to talk to him for 9 months? Yep.

That’s not out of the blue. That’s not random. That, to me, seems like a specific attempt of undermining a wife’s place in the family. I’m not alone in thinking this right? He thinks that she wants his attention because she’s lonely but nine months and suddenly THIS right after i tell her to stay away? Please. She’s tried to come in between us before, to make sure I have no part in my husbands life, and I see this as an attempt to kick dirt in my face. He of course ignored her because she’s awful but everyone else in the family wants her around and excuses every action. I’m an extremely lax wife and don’t give much shit as to what he does, but I feel like it’s a bad idea for him to let her around us at all, ever. RIGHT?