Which would you choose?

Guy number one is my sons father we have history together (6 years) but he takes his stress out on me. He isn’t romantic, either.

Guy number two I feel uses me but I’m not 100% sure because I always offer to help. He’s only asked twice to borrow something other times I did. He’s older, injured so doesn’t have a job. I feel like I’d take care of him. But again idk. Don’t know if I want to risk the chance.

Side note* me and baby daddy broke up when I started talking to guy #2 but all of a sudden baby dad wants to make things work...