My husband broke my heart

Today he told me he thinks I don’t love him anymore.

We’ve almost been married for 5 years and not a day goes by that I don’t think to myself how lucky I am to have him. But we’re struggling in almost every aspect of life right now. There is so much stress and chaos that it’s hard to stay focused on our relationship. On top of that I’m starting my third year of med school next week and I know it’s going to be insane.

He told me he wants to reverse his vasectomy and get me pregnant. Something we’ve talked about many times, but always come to the conclusion that we can’t and really don’t want to do. I told him that I don’t want to pregnant and that it would just add to our stress and it won’t be healthy for anyone involved. He broke into tears and told me that I’ve been distant and that I must be falling out of love for him.

It broke my heart to hear him say that. I want to plan something special for the two of us. Something that makes him feel special but I can’t think of something we haven’t already done that wouldn’t cost a lot of money. Any ideas or suggestions?