My boyfriend’s friend

Hi everyone,

I’m in a relationship with this wonderful guy who treats me better than I could have imagined.

My only qualm is that he’s still friends with an old fuck buddy. Our relationship is still in the early stages, and he’s been friends with her for 10 years. She’s currently engaged, but her fiancé lives in a different state because that’s where his army base is. The first time I met her, all she talked about was the good times she and my boyfriend had together years ago. I honestly felt like the third wheel with those two. I was pissed, but I didn’t want to come across as jealous but I told him that was very disrespectful.

She always texts him about how she wants to kill herself and how no one cares about her, etc. and he runs to her.

Most recently was last Saturday, my boyfriend and I were laying in bed together and she texts him. Suddenly he says "baby, I’m sorry but I need to go find her before she does something stupid". So I go home and he goes to find her. He texts me Sunday morning and says he slept over at her house and they’re getting breakfast together. At this point I’m furious.

I just need to know your opinions. The first thought in my mind is that they’re sleeping together even though he says he’d never cheat. I want to hear what you ladies think about this and if I should put my foot down with him and her.

UPDATE:

I talked to him about her and how inappropriate it is to be friends with her and how him spending the night over there made me super uncomfortable. He agrees that was inappropriate and he said he’ll start distancing himself from her and placing boundaries. I’m actually surprised at how well he took to the conversation and how he sees what he did wrong and will work to not make the same mistake again, I really thought it was going to end badly.

Thank you ladies for giving me that extra push and confidence to bring it up..and also letting me know that I’m not *as* crazy as I often think I am lol