Baby BOY announcement VS hemorrhage

I’m so happy I found out last week we’re expecting our 1st boy March 11,2019. I’ve made a cute little PDF to post in FB to announce his arrival but I’ve been Hemorrhaging since Saturday! 😡🤬😭

I went to OB triage this morning at 3am and they found a sub chronic hemorrhage behind the placenta... my uterus is high & the placenta is near my back. I’m no stranger to this...I’ve had it before with my last daughter & she was born full term, vag. However I only gushed blooded once with her. I’ve gushed twice so far with this baby & passed a large clot.

😢😞😔😔 I’m really sad & confused about announcing him as I don’t want the placenta to detach completely & I loose my son. I’m at work exhausted, cold & cramping but more so depressed & worried. My husband recently claimed temporary disability(6 days on life support) and although he’s home doing great he’s in no rush to return to work...nor am I. I know I can’t afford the time off. I work in compliance department managing 24 schools in Ohio & this is the busiest time of year.... I’m just sad, worried, confused & totally distracted from work. Not to mention sleepy from last night.

Good news is he’s doing great in there with 160 beats a minute. I can feel him moving a little & that just gives me hope. The big question is to make the announcement and ask for prayers or just hold off 🤔🤔🤔🤔