unappreciated and miserable

my husband is almost constantly angry and aggressive when he is home. he can hardly deal with our 2 year old son without having an outburst. if something gets dropped on the floor he will either sign loudly and put his head in his hands or yell. and then I'll clean up the mess. sometimes he can br super helpful but most of the time he is not. I am up before 6 most mornings dealing with the babies and making his lunch and morning coffee.. and he never says thank you .. he stays up late and sleeps in. we never talk. hes on his phone (9gag) alot. he would be on it all evening if i let him . I dont stop being busy after he gets home. he sometimes plays with the 2 year old but usually just gets him more hyped up before bed. I'm busy right up until the moment the babies are asleep. he makes me feeling bad when I have to sit down to nurse my new born. he acts as if I'm getting a break when realistically it's harder to nurse the baby because I still have to play with, discipline, and help my two year old. usually during the day I nurse the baby while multi tasking something else . my husband acts like playing with the toddler is a huge chore when I feel like it's something he should enjoy. hes so angry toward me because he thinks I do nothing when realistically I dont stop from 6am to sometimes 10pm but he would never understand that and would find a way to turn it around on me.