When did you tell your best friends you were pregnant?

I’m 8 weeks along and I wasn’t planning on telling anyone but my husband until 11 or 12 weeks. However, two of my three best friends are engaged and they keep pestering me about picking dates for their bachelorette parties and bridal showers and I feel bad ignoring them or changing the subject. When did you tell your best friends, family and work? Would love to hear strategies! I just don’t want to jinx it because I’ve had so many friends who’ve miscarried 😔