what's the problem ?

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I'm 17 and I live with my grandmother I've noticed if I come out my room with no bra on she'll say "go put a bra on there are men here ( my dad , her husband ) " or "those are too big put a bra on" i understand if I had a tank top or a low cut shirt on but I wear big shirts and long sleeves so I don't see what the problem is ?? although it is her house so i respect her wishes

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It’s your grandmother she was brought up in a time where it’s considered indecent particularly around the opposite sex to not wear a bra. It’s just different ways of thinking.

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I dont see a problem because I do that too but it could be just that she is old-fashioned and that's how she was raised. 🙂

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When I was living with my mom and sisters I'd wear a bra around them. I'd never not wear a bra around my dad.

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I agree that it’s probably just her old fashioned ways, believing that a lady should wear a bra when other people are around, especially men. That said, I personally don’t see the problem either. I live with my grandmother too. Currently, one of my uncles (her son) is living with us (we lived with him at one point in the past as well). Also, my aunt, her husband, and their kids come spend the weekend here often. And, I’m personally always braless when I’m at home, regardless what kind of shirt I’m wearing or who’s here (unless we’re having a party or big family get together, like holidays. Then I’ll wear one). I mean, let’s be honest, bras aren’t that comfortable lol, especially if u wear underwire ones, which I do. So, when I’m at home, I just want to be comfortable, and I feel I have the right to be comfortable while at home. If anyone is bothered by it, oh well 🤷‍♀️ lol.

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