Too tight...

My boyfriend and I have been trying to have sex for 3 months or so. However, it is IMPOSSIBLE for him to put his penis in me. It doesn’t even hurt because there’s absolutely no way he can put it in me so therefore I’m not feeling anything. We’ve tried lube and he’ll finger me and honestly when he has 1 finger in me, it hurts and 2 fingers is impossible to get in me.

Also trust me, I’m extremely turned on and we do lots of foreplay.

What is the problem?? I’m so heartbroken.