Fiancé and strip clubs

First off, i have nothing against what people do for money. If you strip/dance, that’s your hustle go for it. But I’m having a very hard time with this...

Would you be okay with your fiancé going to a strip club for his 21st!?

I’m very insecure as it is. But i don’t like the fact that he’s wasting our hard earned money on other girls. And i see it as, obviously my body isn’t good enough you have to go throw our money at girls.. and i dont know what to do😔 we are 1300 miles apart because he’s in the military. So it sucks even more that i can’t spend his birthday with him.. but I’m stuck. And i truly would be heart broken if he went..