How long is your cycle?

Ashley

AF is currently 2 days late, getting BFN on HPT, no LH surge on OPK strip. Seems like my cycle has been 35-45 days since going off BC in April. Anyone else have cycles this long? Is it normal? My cycles seem so confusing, they never are the same length so I'm confused if and when I really ovulate since it doesnt look like the same time each month. Been TTC for 2 cycles now.