Does your SO put down the toilet seat for you?

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My husband never puts the toilet seat down, it annoys the crap outta me, I’m also 14 weeks pregnant so I’m always getting up in the middle of the night to use the washroom. Last night I was half asleep and zombied over there, sat down and almost fell in, super gross sitting on the rim 😣🙈

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We both always close the lid because our toilet is in the bathroom & I think it’s gross leaving it open regardless if the seat is up or down, the lid should always be closed.

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He leaves it up but I don't mind. He always has to lift it to pee so not sure why I can't put it down to pee.

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My partner always has, as he states it as a respectful thing when someone else is living with you. Quote, "It isn't hard to put it down, the same way you put it up. All it comes down to is mindfulness and respect."

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Do you put it up for him? I don’t, and I don’t care if it’s up or down when I get there, such a silly thing to get worked up over in my opinion

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Mine doesn’t put the seat up... 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Yes, because when we first moved in together I used to jokingly scream from the bathroom “aghhhhh I’m drowning!! Agghhh hellllppp!! I’m stuck. In. The. BOWL!” And he would laugh his behind off, profusely apologise and try harder to remember. Lots of praise when it was closed (to stop the germs floating around out of it, gross) helped him to remember too. Now it’s only once in a blue moon he forgets, and as soon as I start calling for help to save me from drowning we both crack up laughing. Especially if your hubby lived with guys for a long time before you, it’s a force of habit  Don’t make it a nagging point, be kind and supportive and it will change 😊

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My boyfriend always sits down to pee at home (in public he stands) so we never have that problem in our house. Plus I never have to be cleaning urine off the side of the toilet or on the floor because of bad aim or anything so that is nice too

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Our lid is permanently closed so yes he always puts it down. The bathroom window is the only window we keep open 24/7 so the cats go in and out from there and jump on the toilet lid to get up there.

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Yep and if he sprinkles he cleans up after himself ! I'm blessed because not all men are so respectful.

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I’d just tell him nicely that you’d prefer it if he could put the toilet seat down after using it. Most of the time my partner sits down to pee anyways 😂

Does your SO put down the toilet seat for you?

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