Calling all ladies with “fortunate” men 🍆 Help!

Okay so I need some advice please!

My new man is.. how do I put it? Very well endowed? And I absolutely love it! However it’s making sex tricky. I have to be 100% warmed up and ready before we can actually do the deed and even then it’s usually a couple more minutes of more lubricant and gentle pushing before his in.

It feels absolutely amazing once his in and proving I’m warmed up there’s minimal discomfort during actual intercourse but I’ve noticed for a girl that’s usually embarrassed by how wet she is, I seem to always not be lubricated enough for him, or none of my natural lubrication is able to make its way out lol. So we’re constantly pausing to add more, I feel bad being dry because I have never had this issue before, as I said it’s usually the opposite and having to stop to clean up a bit!

Then afterwards (more so the next day) I feel very tender which means we can’t back up a great night with morning sex :( We did once but it was way more pain than pleasure.

How do you ladies get around this? Is there certain lubes or positions or toys you use to help ‘prepare’ yourself? Or does your body eventually adjust?

Also he really wants to try anal but I’m so petrified! I tried it once with a man half his size and it was super painful. I hate to think how we’d go with that! Again is there any tips or tricks around this? Or is anal just a no go when they’re of that size?

Thanks in advance x