Feeling distant from my husband

My little one is 11 days old today and I feel like me and the hubby drifting apart. Hes really my soulmate or at least I felt like that before the baby was born. I seriously expected so much because he is such a wonderful man to me and our older children(all from previous relationships this is our first baby together). He was really supportive my whole pregnancy which was really rough but it was like once the labor started it was the beginning of the end. He fell asleep through almost my whole labor. In the hospital he stayed with us the whole time but didn't really help with the baby. He helps but is always trying to relax or play video games. We game together but since the baby had been born he just seems distant. He makes me feel like I'm bugging when I ask for help. It's been rough because my son had really bad jaundice. He went with us to all his appointments he really is great. Or house is filthy and he doesn't help clean it and I'm trying but since the baby had been stuck I was glued to him. Ive made comments about being unhappy and he seems shocked. I think he means well but I just feel depressed.