He won’t nap

Me

2 months/9 weeks. He sleeps great at night but will not nap more than 30 min during the day. It’s killing me!!! We swaddle, white noise, black out shades, sing, pacifier and rock. I put him down drowsy and he wakes up 20 min later. I can’t get anything done!!! 😭😭😭😭

He has me up at 4:30 am and won’t settle for half an hour after his bottle. Then wakes at 7-7:30. I’m exhausted. He cries when I hold him. I cry feeding him. I am so tired. I can’t do it