Am I a Slut?

Question

When I was 18 I dated a 40 year old man on the internet (nothing sexual) , and when I told my ex about it, he flipped out. But i just need an honest opinion. Because since we broke up, Ive felt like i just threw my body around.
(i didnt know which topic to put this in)

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if a man dates a woman younger than him, hes not a slut. if a man dates a woman older than him, hes not a slut. so why are you? nah girl. have sex with who you want (as long as its legal) and date who you want. the only way any woman is ever a slut in my eyes is if she hooks up with a man knowing hes married or in a relationship. if you know he's committed, dont go near him. that and only that makes you a hoe.

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You sexual partners does not determine your worth. Honestly, doesn’t matter if someone has 2 sexual partners or 15, that’s not a reflection on you as you’re not in a relationship and the relationship happened prior to him. He’s insecure. Unless you were cheating in a committed relationship then he has nothing to be mad about.

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Nobody owns your body but you and you have the total right to do whatever you please with it. It doesn’t make you a slut. Fuck people who ‘slut-shame’ women, especially other women who do it! Just because someone chooses to make decisions that you wouldn’t necessarily make doesn’t make those decisions dirty or wrong. If someone can’t get over the fact that you had a romantic past before them, they’ve got bigger issues my friend. You do you! ❤️

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It’s your emotions, no matter the age. If the age is just a number to you then ignore negative comments. I was 27 when I went out on a date with a very good looking 50 year old. My point, age can be like physical appearance. It’s the heart that matters, and if they treat you right. Now, if the age makes it illegal then there’s definitely everything wrong with that. Otherwise, do your thing girl. A lot of guys think that’s gross and aren’t confident they can live up to the older man’s intelligence and maturity level.

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I think that if you dated an older guy knowing his age but he had a nice personality than that’s fine but if he didn’t that’s not the most...APPROPRIATE... relationship... BUT if you didn’t know his age then it’s not your fault. BESIDES, you were 18 which means you were a grown ass woman and you could’ve done whatever you wanted! Plus it’s not like you slept with him...

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I accidentally clicked yes. I meant to click NO. 🤦🏾🤦🏾

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It dosent make you a slut, I mean I’m 18 rn and a 40 year old man dosent spark my interest but that’s you boo.

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You didn't have sex with him 🤷 so you not a slut. He's just an idiot and who cares if he's as old as your father could be some people soulmate are older or younger than him. It's not like you were dating this 40 year old at 15 or 16. You were 18 legal age. Ignore his dumbass 🙄

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If you had sex with multiple guys then kinda yes. And he probably flipped out because to me that’s gross. Just because he’s old enough to be your dad..

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