Sex had become very dull. It's overrated and I gotten mistreated and made to feel ashamed and embarrassed on the issue of sex so bad that I've been beaten up and even went to jail. My husband chose to crash into a poll than to fulfill my needs. He even told me he thinks of other women while on me. He doesn't listen to what I want then makes me feel guilty for even having sexual desires. Now sex for me is non-existent. I don't want it anymore. Not from him or anybody else. I'm extremely turned off by him asking for sex and now my body shuts down when he asks.