Second time around

So dating a new guy, on our first sexual encounter we went at it for 2 hours. He never came. He loves to give me oral sex for hours too.

Fast forward to today, he doesn’t stay full erect. Maybe enough to put it in but gets limp a bit.

Now I just noticed by reading someone else’s post that he may have an issue. He was blaming the condoms. We tried a bit without. (I know that stupid of me) But we’re both beyond adults.

For next time, cause I refuse to give up since this is the guy I’m so into that I don’t even want to give the sex thought too much. We do so much stuff besides have sex, that k need this to work some how.

Ladies, what are some of the things you did to keep your man up? Should I perform more oral? At one point we were so hot into passion, and boom he lost half his hard on.